Interpreting the Groans

February 24, 2021
Tim Lien

There are moments when words cannot give any sensible form to thought or feeling.

One humid night I found myself in an ER room. I had been shooed in by a wide-eyed, panicked looking nurse. I kept my back against the wall and found a place as far away as possible from the 16 year old who was unresponsive. The huddled team was shouting, cursing, demanding, moving. His parents were in the hallway. My presence there had been a mistake—a breach of medical protocol.

About 20 minutes passed. The measures proved futile. And then quiet. “No, no, no, no,” said the head doctor. More quiet. No movement for what seemed like a long 10 seconds. He looked up, saw me for the first time. “Who the hell are you?” he barked.
“The minister,” a nurse meekly managed.
“Get him the hell out of here, now!”

To the hallway. Father and mother looked up at me, mostly with fear and 1/2 milligram of hole-in-one possibility. I had no words but a slight shake of the head.

Groans. Loud groans heard nowhere else. Real groans—insensible groans communicating more than 19 multi-cultural dictionaries stitched together. 

Any discussion of lament must incorporate groaning. But that’s not a word we use much. For those with no scars or medicated heavily by diversion and coping, groaning smacks of melodrama. But for those losing 16 year olds, anything other than a groan is breezy, ineffectual Hallmark falsity.

Are groanings godly? Like most things, it depends.
Can you interpret groans? Can the insensible be assessed and understood?

Read, ponder and evaluate the validity of the following groans:
1. The hot, animalistic screams of my kid being denied more Kindle time.
2. The Unified Republique de Hebrew Peoples groaning over wilderness lembas, aka manna.
3. The same aforementioned assembly whining for Le Croix de la Rock.
4. Jonah fist-in-the-air-angry at no shade; also super-groaning that God grants mercy to beastly Ninevites.
5. The Psalmist groaning: How long will it be until You fix it all?
6. The Psalmist groaning: How long until my own weakness and wounded-ness is patched, perfect, and finally past?
7. The Psalmist groaning: How long until there is full peace within? Full peace around me?
8. The Psalmist groaning: How long until the Accuser will just shut-up with all his incessant indictments against me?

Without translating the groans into Swahili, Mandarin, or Louisianan Cajun, the groans naturally settle themselves into two categories. Groaning can be about my kingdom come, or groaning can be about Thy kingdom come. One is whining, the other is lament— or godly lament.

Paul (The Apostle) says something interesting about groaning—something he found as self-evident:

“…we know that the whole creation has been groaning together up to this present moment.” (That’s Roman 8, by the way). It’s as if he sees everything as evidence that everything is, indeed, messed up.

Every junior-high student’s favorite memory verse snaps a photo of Jesus doing the same thing: Jesus wept (John 11:35). But “wept” is probably too antiseptic. “Groaned” is better. Death of a friend WAS NOT THE WAY IT WAS DESIGNED. 

There are moments when words cannot give any sensible form to thought or feeling.

Perhaps, groaning is not just the way of lament, but the way of God himself.  

Paul, again, from Romans 8:

For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. (Romans 8:26-27)


2020 The Way - SGV